The I In Team: Times When It’s Okay To Ask For Help

The majority of self-help mantras all peddle the same kind of message. Be true to yourself; look out for yourself; you are in charge and the world is your oyster. It’s even been suggested that the height of psychological health is self-actualization. Being self-reliant and not needing assistance has many good sides, but it can go too far.

Sometimes, you need to consult another person or group of people. With the above sentiments echoing in your ears, it can sometimes be difficult to accept that outside assistance is just what you need. Yet in terms of evolution, humans are a species who flourish in groups and tribes- we’re not programmed to only rely on ourselves. It’s not a weakness if you have to ask for someone else’s perspective; in fact, acknowledging that need can be a strength.

If you have become used to pushing the idea of self-reliance almost too far, here are a few areas to look at easing back and accepting outside help.

Legal Matters – So Keep Things In Perspective

Law is a profession that requires years of study. Yet it can sometimes be difficult to access, or even to find out if you’ve got a case to bring forward. Maybe you feel you lose your job unfairly, or went through a personal accident you believe was not your fault. Fired up in righteous outrage, you decide you definitely have a point. It may look obvious on the outside to you; perhaps you tripped and broke an arm on a loose paving slab, costing you work time at your job. You can see that the paving slab was poorly fixed, and you’ve even got a few photos. But unfortunately, with the law, sometimes being right doesn’t mean you’re going to win.

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You have to know areas of law, concepts of culpability – and be ready to argue your side in the face of opposition. It can be a mentally gruelling process, and you have no guarantee of getting the right result. You’re also more prone to be emotional about the case, because you have lived through the issues it caused. You will soon find that consulting Accident Information And Advice means you are more prepared for what lies ahead should you decide to pursue the matter further.

Certain DIY Tasks Should Not Be DIYed

There are plenty of small at-home tasks you can, and should, do for yourself. General maintenance and repairs are a good way for you to be familiar with what your home needs- and you save money by doing these tasks yourself.

However, the home can actually be a pretty dangerous place. As a baseline, there’s a few areas you should never tackle without expert opinion:

  • Anything involving electricity. As a general rule, don’t mess with things that can kill you if you do it wrong.
  • Load-bearing walls. Don’t knock anything down unless you know it’s safe to do so.
  • Your boiler. Gas can be life-threatening, so see the electricity point.
  • Working at heights. You may have a head for them, but unless you’re familiar with moving at height, leave it to the pros.

If you really want to try and tackle the above tasks, then there are plenty of night classes to help. With a few hours study, you can continue to DIY while knowing you’re doing it as safely as possible. Of course, this still means consulting others- your teacher, for a start, so it’s a good step in the right direction.

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